Returning to Pilates
August has a way of disrupting our routines. Holidays come and go, children are off school, visitors arrive, and the structure that usually holds our weeks together can soften around the edges.
Sometimes that's exactly what we need. It can be a relief to step away from schedules, obligations and the familiar rhythm of everyday life. But as summer progresses, I often notice another feeling beginning to emerge: a quiet desire to return.
Not necessarily to work or busy calendars, but to the things that help us feel grounded — the habits, practices and routines that help us feel more like ourselves.
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We put a lot of value on starting
We celebrate new beginnings everywhere we look: the start of a new year, a new exercise programme, a new goal or habit, a fresh start. Something is exciting about beginnings. They offer possibility and hope, and allow us to imagine a different future. But after more than 10 years of teaching movement, I'm not convinced that starting is where the real magic happens. Returning carries far more weight.
One of the things I hear surprisingly often from clients is an apology:
"I haven't been for weeks"
"I've fallen off track"
"I feel like I'm starting all over again."
Perhaps you've said something similar yourself.
"Returning" feels so much kinder, and actually more realistic, than "starting again". Life was never meant to move in a perfectly straight line. There will always be holidays, illnesses, family commitments, busy periods at work and unexpected challenges. There will be seasons when movement comes easily and others when it naturally slips further down the list. That’s life.
What matters isn't whether we occasionally step away from the things that support us, but whether we know how to come back to them.
Your body remembers
Pilates teaches this lesson beautifully. People are often surprised by how quickly their body remembers after some time away. Perhaps a little strength has been lost, or things feel slightly stiffer than before, but awareness, coordination and confidence begin to return, often much more quickly than expected.
There can be a lovely moment in those first few classes back when something that initially felt unfamiliar suddenly clicks again. Your body remembers the movement, the breath begins to connect with it, and you realise that you haven't actually gone all the way back to the beginning.
I think the same is true of many of the things that nourish us.
It might be the walk that clears your head, the friend you always feel better after speaking to, the book you've been meaning to finish, those quiet ten minutes before everyone else wakes up, or the movement practice that helps you feel comfortable in your own skin.
These things don't disappear simply because we've neglected them for a while. They're still there when we're ready to come back to them.
Learning to return without judgement
Perhaps one of the most valuable skills we can develop is learning how to return without judgement — without the inner voice telling us we've failed, the pressure to make up for lost time, or the belief that we need a dramatic fresh start before we're allowed to begin again. Instead, we can notice what we need and take one small step back towards it. That might be a walk, a class, a conversation with someone we love or simply a moment of stillness in a busy day.
We're not necessarily trying to become someone new. Sometimes we're simply reconnecting with something we already know helps us feel well.
As summer gradually gives way to autumn, perhaps that's a gentler invitation than the usual idea of starting over. We don't need a reinvention or a fresh start; we can just return to the practices, places and people that help us feel steady and support our wellbeing. And in my experience, that is often more than enough.
Lauren x
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